Why Do Loved Ones Hurt Us the Most?

VO nahin mila to malal kya, jo guzar gaya so guzar gaya,

Use yad karake na dil dukha, jo guzar gaya so guzar gaya .

Tujhe aitabar-o-yaqeen nahin, nahin duniya itani buri nahin,

na malal kar mere sath aa, jo guzar gaya so guzar gaya .

vo vafaain thi ke jafaain thi, ye na soch kisakee khataain thi,

vo tera hai usako gale laga, jo guzar gaya so guzar gaya .

Whether you accept or not but all of us have seen the ‘Break-up’ or “Hurt by loved one’ phase in once, twice or sometimes thrice in our life. But the day when our hearts are broken, we feel restless, isolated and what not. We try to balance ourselves but our brain doesn’t respond with our heart. Both starts war inside thus hurting each part of the body which in turn increases the pain and makes us more uncomfortable.

But nothing can be done at this stage, our loved ones with whom we spend beautiful days, dream of more joyful years have left us alone. We try to find out the reasons behind the whole scene but our so called dear, close partner of ours is in no mood to answer our queries ,that department is shifted somewhere else, maybe far away from our expectations.

What we do then, try to kill ourselves, smoke like anything or drink a lot. Do whatever but the pain is not going to subside so fast, it will take its time. Then what is the medicine to kill the pain, to me nothing, I don’t know if you have any alternative or not.